What Would You Do If...(2)
I have another real life story to tell you guys and I really hope we all learn a thing or two from this story.
This happened to a dear friend and she's the saddest mother now, I'm going to cut through the whole story cos imagining everything she told me, it drives me crazy!! Here goes..
"I am currently at a loss at what to do now, the next step to take now. I'm a mother of two kids; a boy and a girl. I work so my husband's nephew lives with us, he's 16 and we have a nanny too, but she doesn't live with us. I have always seen him as a good boy, so i never suspected anything. I came home from work one day and whilst bathing my 5yr old daughter, i noticed her private was paining her, so i asked her and she said her uncle ****** put something inside her weeweee. We went for tests and it was confirmed there had been penetration. My world crashed all around me, we locked the idiot up but later released him and sent him packing. Because he's family, everything was done in hush hush, now i can't help blaming myself. If i hadn't been working, maybe this wouldn't have happened! If we hadn't trusted that boy, maybe it wouldn't have happened? How do i tell my daughter she's no longer a virgin when she grows up? How do i ever forgive that boy..? How do i stop hating him for doing this to my child..? Is it even possible to forgive or forget..?"
Hmmm it's so sad really!! How do one ever forgive something like this? I really hope this won't affect this child in any way... I really do!
Which reminds me of something else.. I was at the salon last month, two beautiful little sisters were there to weave their hair. Their mom dropped them and went home to do some housework(what i was told by the hairdresser oo).
So one not too clean, dirty moustache looking guy like that appeared and called one of the girl's name. She jumped up and went to hug him, they said he's their church member. He took the little girl in his arms, was singing and dancing with her and touching her all over too.
It's a crazy world we live in now and No One can be trusted again. I was so uncomfortable with that scene, i almost shouted at him to leave that child alone. I mean she's not your relative, stop that yeye play abeg!! I was wondering if her mom was there, would she have allowed that dirty stranger to be touching and playing with her child like that?
As for me i won't oo, I don't trust you. It's as simple as that! Call me a shrew or whatever, i don't care! You never know the perverted thoughts that might be running through that man's mind and you wouldn't know what he's capable of doing if he's alone with that child!
Mothers it's our duty to protect our children, we owe them that! Call me whatever, all i know is. The heart of man is wicked and evil! Let's all be careful whom we trust and allow close to our children!
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